Boy Friends: A Memoir of Joy, Grief and Male Friendship

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In 2018, Michael Pedersen lost his close friend Scott Hutchison, shortly after they had travelled together through the Highlands. In the weeks that followed, Pedersen began to write to him, letters shaped by disbelief, affection, and the slow, unsteady work of grief.

Boy Friends grows from that act of address. What begins as a message to one absent friend widens into a meditation on male intimacy, vulnerability, and the friendships that sustain a life. The book moves between memory and present tense, attentive to music, landscape, and the particular language shared between men who have learned how to listen to one another.

Written with warmth and clarity, Boy Friends resists sentimentality while allowing emotion its full weight. It celebrates tenderness without irony, honouring friendships that are playful, sustaining, and profound. In tracing one loss, the book opens space for many presences, and for a form of love that is too rarely given the seriousness it deserves.