Overview

In Meet and Delete, Pauline Lawless gives us a sharp and good-humoured look at online dating in modern Dublin. We follow three women, Viv, Claire and Megan, as they turn to dating apps after plenty of disappointment in real life. Dates come and go, messages misfire and expectations fall apart, but what really takes shape is a story about friendship, confidence and learning to ask for more from life and love.

Writing & Voice

We enjoyed Lawless’s easy, conversational style. The writing feels natural and quick, with dialogue that sounds like real conversations rather than polished lines. The humour is warm rather than sharp, and the lighter moments are balanced with honest reflections about self-doubt, ageing and starting over. While some situations feel familiar, the tone keeps things engaging and upbeat.

Characters

Each woman feels distinct. Viv presents as confident but carries a quiet sense of loneliness. Claire’s sarcasm masks frustration, while Megan is learning how to stand on her own after change. What stood out to us most was their friendship, supportive, messy and deeply believable. The men they meet add comic chaos, even if they are not always fully developed.

Themes

At its heart, the novel looks at self-worth, connection and how easily people are reduced to profiles and photos. It asks whether it is possible to stay true to yourself while navigating an online world that encourages quick judgement. Throughout, friendship proves steadier and more reliable than romance.

What Worked

• Relatable humour: the dating mishaps feel familiar and kindly observed.
• Strong friendship focus: the bond between the three women drives the story.
• Modern setting: captures the reality of dating apps without feeling forced.

Minor Quibbles

• Some plot turns are easy to predict if you read a lot of romantic fiction.
• Several male characters exist mainly to move the story along.
• A few emotional moments resolve very neatly.

Final Thoughts

We found Meet and Delete funny, warm and reassuring. It is a feel-good read that values friendship as much as romance, and it handles modern dating with honesty and heart. A satisfying choice for readers who enjoy contemporary Irish fiction with humour and hope.

Rating: ★★★★☆ (4 / 5)